Have you done a serious threat assessment of your neighbors or neighborhood? The fecal matter has hit the rotary metal. You and your family are prepared. It will be tough, but you can make it. But your neighbors who thought you were nuts are suddenly banging on your door, demanding you help them. What do you do?
Below are some excellent articles on just this topic:
In most cases, family comes first, then friends and neighbors if possible. Some folks plan ahead for this. Others do not or cannot. Being prepared includes preparing for the mental stress that these kinds of situations can bring. The other part of this is how relationships are damaged and destroyed during these extraordinary times. Study how people in small villages treated each other long after similar events. Survivor guilt and survivor anger can be present for a long time.